Ja ich habe ihm das Geld in bar gegeben und ohne Nachweis.

Ich denke auch ernsthaft über eine Anzeige nach, eben auch weil er möglicherweise einen Namen benutz, der damit nichts zu tun hat und den es real gibt.

Ich hab vor einer Woche (am 13.4.) eine nette Mail an den Herren geschickt und ihm mitgeteilt, dass mich nur ein persönliches Treffen überzeugen kann und ich das ich den Kontakt endgültig beenden möchte. Ich habe noch total zerknirscht eine Entschuldigung geschrieben und wie leid mir alles tut.

Seitdem habe ich nichts mehr gehört von ihm.

Vielen Dank.

Und die Antwort ist da:

Dear Angela,

It is so unfortunate that we found ourselves in this situation and it's taking all my energy away. I myself have not felt this way where I'm found in such a discomfort, I have tried my best to make you understand that this can't be a reason for our comfort to be denied, there is nothing i wouldn't do to prove myself to you even if i have to send the video of myself i will gladly do that only for you to believe that i am the one you have been talking to all this while.
I feel hurt taking this step just to prove myself and i guess it's too early dear, i never wanted to rush this but it really hurts am doing this,
I can't do anything through email and if you feel am not the guy for you then i really don't want to force you myself... I can't force love to come to me i believe love is all about trust
but if you are not ready for a relationship let me know so i give up... i have felt enough pain already trying to prove myself to you, and you are breaking me in all way and making me loose focus, the solution we seek is in our hands and i am ready with all my heart, i just want you to save us from this pain because only you could do that...
I really want you to get hold of yourself because there's absolutely nothing wrong with us.
enjoy your evening Angela......

Eric

Ich werde ihm morgen schreiben, das es für uns beide besser ist, den Kontakt abzubrechen. Werde nette Worte finden, Ende und gut.

Ganz ehrlich ich bewundere, dass ihr die Leute so lange bei der Stange halten könnt. Für mich ist das immer noch sehr mit Stress verbunden. ich muss Abstand gewinnen.

Echt? Ich hab whatsapp erst seit kurzem, nur seinetwegen . Aber ich denke, gerade wenn die Handynummer schon ein Fake ist, lohnt es sich nicht. Außerdem hab ich hier gelesen, dass man da auch faken kann. Also reallife und sonst nix.
Hab ihm grad mal geantwortet, bin gespannt was kommt.

Dear Eric,

since yesterday my self-respect is as low as never before. I fell like a fall guy, not as a women, which is worth to love. I delete my dating-account, because im not longer interested in dating – now i knew, why i had never before at a dating-side.
It is really not easy for me, to know, that i maybe do you wrong. I read half the night how i can get help and how i can get sure. I got no solution.
But on the other side, are there some little things, which you told me and which doesn´t match. Reading your mails, profile and messages over and over makes me more unsure than ever.
Sorry i have no solution to get really sure at this time. Can you give a solution that i can be sure, that you are the men, which i think to talk to? Talking is no solution for me.
I need time to get help. Need time to find out how i can get sure.

Angela

Haha, gönn mir doch meine Spaß.

Ja, das ist meine richtige Mailadresse. Naja, der Hinweis mit seiner Telefonnummer hat mir gereicht. Ich glaube nicht, das der Mann vor mir stehen würde, der auf den Bildern ist.
Ich kann kein Videochat , hab selbst keine Kamera. Über whatsapp gesprochen haben wir ja schon. Und ganz ehrlich erste Ausflucht bei Treffen ist dann sein k.o.

Habe mein Account in lovescout gelöscht. Vor ca einer Stunde.

Gestern, nachdem die falsche Telefonnummer klar war, habe ich sehr nett auf seine letzte Mail geantwortet. Er weis noch nicht, dass ich von der falschen Telefonnummer weis.

Hier die Mails:
My dear Angela,

I really understand how you feel right now because i share the same fate with you, you don't know how hurt i feel since yesterday, i am so lost without your voice, even if you do not wish to continue with this relationship at least let me hear your voice i get hungry but at the sight of the food my appetite is lost that's because i am worried and sad and i say to my self we don't deserve this, i believe in your trust and will always do, this is my first time on a dating site and it hurts me so bad to notice that the person i have fallen for is getting wrong feelings about me,
Honestly i do not blame you in anyway for trying to protect your heart, but at the same time you should also consider my heart as well,
I only told you nothing but the truth, I feel so terrible, i can only wish you understand how i feel right now and i really want you to unblock me on whatsapp because we can fix this and move on, the part of me is right there with you i can't do nothing until i hear your voice.
I guess we both need help but the help i need right now is to hear voice because i believe this is just an internet failures which happens all the time and you must believe me, you just need to think about it Angela, I know in your heart you might be thinking you have done me wrong but after i had thought about everything... i came to understand you were just trying to protect yourself of which i would do the same if i was in your shoes, but now you can see it's not worth our hearts being in so much pain, you have gotten so deep in my heart that i can't think of nothing else and i miss your voice so much, i will wait for you on whatsapp, if you truly trust me and cares about how i feel right now unblock me on whatsapp and we will be fine i promise...

Still your Eric and will always be.

Hugs..

Angela Paepcke wrote:
Dear Eric,

i didn´t know if i´m wrong or true. Thats my problem. I can not get sure to be wrong or right. I don´t know how. Be sure i wish im wrong. Really. I know about mistakes of the internet and thats why you got my mail. Internet said – no more contact. I did not, because i know, that inet can fail. You do not know, what you have done to me. I feel to fly the last days, your voice wish me to be hold in your arms, i can sink in your eyes. The last days i have thinking of you very much. I feel so down now, you cant believe. As i wrote my mail i´ve every time thinking about „ what if im wrong“, but in first time i have to protect myself. I wouldnt wound you, blind out all warnings, believe to the good. I trust you really.
I think, what i do to you. In this moment it´s the same to me. No other thinking only if im maybe wrong and wound you in a way i never would. Dont know what to do. Need help i think. Search for help.
Whatsapp in this moment not. I cant.

Angela

Das macht richtig Spaß. Ich denke ich lass ihn noch ein paar Tage zappeln und schlag dann vor, dass wir uns sehen. Spätestens dann muss er die Hosen runterlassen. :-)

Du hast Recht Schnute, es ist verletzend. Aber wenn ich lese, wie lange Du schon mit ihm chattest und trotzdem noch Dein Nein Gefühl hast. Da kannst Du extrem stolz drauf sein.

Hallo Schnute,
mir geht es genauso. Aber wir sind nicht "zu blöd" oder blauäugig. Die Leute verdienen ihr Geld damit. In diesem Fall waren wir die Schlauen, weil wir rechtzeitig weggekommen sind.

Ich hatte meine besten Freunde gleich zu Anfang gefragt, weil "zu schön um wahr zu sein" ist für mich einfach immer komisch. Deren Antwort war "Du hast nichts zu verlieren". Sie hatten Recht.

Ich glaube, das ist der einzige Weg, damit umzugehen.

Meine Mail:
Dear Eric,
your last mail makes me wondering a little. It seems, another person wrote this mail or i´m being mistaken for someone else.
I try to copy/paste your words into google to translate and the result put me back to ground really fast. I did not get a translation – i got very big warnings.
Because of that i paste all you written into google and the warnings didn´t end.
I knew about fakes on dating sites, saw them in TV and friends of me spoke about that.
I am very realistic and had to do much to put these realistic thinking out of my brain. I really want to trust you. Can´t explain, how i feel in this moment.
Maybe i´m doing you wrong, that i´m sorry.
I think we have to quit our conversation forever. I can´t get trust back.
Angela

Die Antwort:
Dear Angela,
My dear Angela, I found you when it matters the most and you gave me your time and confidence which i really appreciate with all my heart, i really do not expect you could have doubts about me after all we had shared about each other so far, i tried to message you on whatsapp i did not get an answer and your picture was not there anymore which probably means you blocked me, i felt really bad but i did not regret not one bit why i still have this strong feelings for you yet, why did you block me how could you do this to me? i can never play with your feelings when i am building my trust around you, This might be an error from the internet and you did not even ask me about it and went on with the decision and blocked me, that was so harsh Angela, Yes you did me wrong by not asking me about what you experienced from the translator, we could have talked about it and why it happened, and this might be an error from the internet which happens all the time...
I can't really explain how i feel right now i can't think of nothing else but this harsh judgement from you why Angela? unblock me on whatsappp let's talk about it OK, i did not do anything wrong to hurt you why did you allow the internet failure to destroy what we share Angela? It is so painful and i will never do a thing like that to you, should anything like this happen from my side i must inform you first before jumping into conclusions because i believe your words about everything, how could you allow this to happen to us, restore me back on whatsappp because you have my heart there with you, I will wait for you on whaatsapp you can also write me an email..
Still Eric always..

Mittlerweile habe ich ihn aus den Handy-Kontakten entfernt. Soll ich bei lovescout melden? Gott bin ich froh, misstrauisch zu sein. Die eine Woche war schon der Hammer. Aber effektiv hab ich nur gewonnen :-).

OK, was tun wir jetzt?
Ich hab echt Lust auf Rache.